who has to decide about having children?

I am reading the book "The One You Cannot Have"

Actually why I wanted to write this post in between you know?

For about 2-3 weeks I am having the same feeling that Shruthi ( A character in the novel ) has in having own children.

I have got this question from all the end "Any Good News?" which I hate to hear.. And this is what I am replying to everyone "If at all something is there, I will definitely inform you"

I really don't understand why people will interfere in others' personal things which is really personal.

They are telling Indian culture is conservative.. Is it?

This is something like asking, "Have you had sex yet or not?" and this is what I interpret to, whenever somebody asks about that Good news.

Don't they feel shame in asking this? What is the solution they are going to provide if I do or don't get conceived..

I am really feeling irritated if someone asks about this, be it my mom or my in-laws...

Is that the only duty a girl has after marriage? She is not having anything else to achieve in her life?

After all, If she wants baby, that is she, who has to decide on that... How can we go for having a baby for someone else?

I hate all the people who asks me about this good news..

Till Marriage they will ask, When is the marriage.. Then immediately they will ask "When is the kid?"

Is that all life about?

I do like kids.. But I have to plan when i have to get it na?

Please don't ask anyone like this... It may hurt them..

With Experiences,
Vaanadhi